As humans we were created to dream -go big or go home. For each individual “less” is relative.
Less could be lack of romantism, less could be 5’11, less could be 4 packs, less could be not acknowledging God, less could be bed skills.
For me, less is anything lower than I was made for, less is anything below my standards.
What are those standards?
God fearing, Kind, humble, Compassionate, Hard working, Positive spirited, Supportive, Loyal, Honest, Truthful, Faithful
I know what I want and how I want it.
I know I want someone who makes me feel special
I know I want someone who cares deeply for me
I know I want to be someone’s priority not second option
I know I want to be happy, not just sometimes but every time
I’m not delusional, I know happiness can’t be tied to someone, but I want you to be a pleasant addition to my life
I know I want to feel loved
I want the unadulterated love
Free of toxins
I don’t want a love-hate love
I want a love that doesn’t cheat.
Sadly, infidelity is the order of the day.
The National Health and Social Life Survey found that 40% of married men, 16% of cohabiting men, and 37% of dating men engaged in acts of sexual infidelity compared to 1% of married women, 8% of cohabiting women, and 17% of women in dating relationships.
I’m a romantic but I’m also a realist.
So, If I want chocolate flavored ice cream, I’ll keep searching till I find it, I’ll starve myself and not fill my belly with plain old vanilla.
I hope I haven’t triggered anyone’s cravings 😂
This is the 3rd part of the 10 part Why am I still single? series. 7 more to go. Yaay!
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